problmemeatic:

• they think a year+ of dating is a good time to get engaged
• phil is a fancy dinner for special occasions type of person
  
• they both think breakfast in bed is romantic
• they agree that pancakes make a romantic breakfast
• dan considers a romantic atmosphere different from a sexy one
• phil does not
• dan likes the idea of taking a bath with someone else
• dan can do a great shrek impression
• “booths are the best because then you get to antisocially sit in the corner”
  
• they’re okay with blowing a ton of money on a meal if it’s special
• normally they get cocktails but wine is for romantic occasions
• they’re for planning a wedding, not eloping